I’ve had a blast at Sundance with the Fuller folks, but I’m glad to be heading home to all my girls. I’ve been blogging about “suffering” as a theme in many of the films here, and this will be my last post on the subject.
So if some of the Sundance Films are suggesting that suffering can be good, and others are calling for a certain kind of suffering, exactly what kind is it?
When it came to depicting the complex nature of suffering through dramatic film this year, none was better than Cary Fukunaga, the writer and director of Sin Nombre. The journey of determined immigrants from Guatemala to the United States, becomes the vehicle for Fukunaga to explore the depths of human determination as he chronicles the explosive collision between a family seeking solace in the U.S. and a Mexican gang in violent transition.
Throughout this highly realistic and emotionally impacting film the journey atop a moving train becomes another powerful character in the story, bearing it’s passengers methodically across the Mexican landscape in spite of the terror and hardship occurring all around. Indeed, the dangers faced by immigrants seeking to reach the U.S. from Honduras, Guatemala, and Mexico are frighteningly real, even before one reaches the American border. Once there, a whole new set of dangers await through the trip over the desert.
In fact, the brutality and grief experienced by the characters in Sin Nombre inevitably leads one to ask the obvious question: why? Why would anyone willingly suffer so and risk everything to make this journey? The only possible answer is that the suffering of the journey pales in comparison to the suffering of remaining behind.
Therefore, for many, though the journey is extremely difficult the choice itself is easy.
It’s the willingness to suffer in the short run that opens up new horizons of possibility for life in the long run. Wisdom teaches that life is not a choice between suffering and happiness, but rather a choice between one kind of suffering and another - one that progresses forever toward a terrible attrition unto death, and one that lingers temporarily in order to birth a new life.
The only way to spurn suffering is to embrace it. The only way to find safety is to chance danger.
Marine Corps Colonel Mike Strobl knows this lesson well. Based on a true story, the incredibly timely and powerful drama Taking Chance shows us how Strobl wrestles with the growing guilt of not having served as a combatant in the Iraq war. Every night in his comfortable and well-tailored home, he checks the Department of Defense website’s casualty list, hoping not to find the names of friends who chose to serve in combat while he remained behind to analyze stats.
When a soldier named Chance Phelps turns up on the list, Strobl volunteers to accompany the body home, hoping this service will gain him the relief from guilt he seeks.
But the trip only exacerbates his guilt.
The film itself is one long study in honor. What is honor? Who deserves it, and what does it take to earn it? Every step of the way Chance’s body is given intentional and incredible honor. There is literally no point on the transition from Iraq to Wyoming when Chance Phelps isn’t treated with loving, formal, and even ritualized respect in the highest possible form. This depiction of honor for the fallen contains practices never before seen on film, and constitute some of the most emotionally enduring images I have ever witnessed in my life. They make for a powerful (and ironic) statement about esteeming life, and how ritual can effectively carve out space for indelibly expressing our deepest held values.
For Mike Strobl, all this honor for Chance painfully reminds him of his own lack of honor. This internal suffering becomes worse when he begins traveling in public, using a commercial flight to take the body home. At every stop along the way someone gives Mike Strobl honor because they assume by his uniform that he has served in the war. People stop him and express their gratitude for his sacrifice. People cry and offer gifts. People salute.
Strobl politely demurs, but the tension mounts as Chance increasingly becomes Mike’s vicarious source of honor. Where Mike chose safety, Chance chose danger. Where Mike chose comfort, Chance chose sacrifice. Throughout the film, there are poignant images of comfortable people giving honor to Mike because they believe has made a sacrifice on their behalf.
Honor is for those who have given themselves sacrificially for others, and this is exactly the kind of suffering that is virtuous; suffering on behalf of others.
Because Mike Strobl never really suffered, he had no real honor - indeed, no real life. His life of ease and comfort was slowly destroying him. By giving himself sacrificially to Chance and the Phelps family - even for a short while - Mike Strobl hitched himself to Chance’s honor, and gained a measure of his own in the process.